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More Meaningful Than We Know

Seven years ago, I was rescued by people who never knew they were saving me. That May, I was stressed out about finishing my first book, and trying to pay bills with free-lance writing gigs. Because of stress or for … Continue reading

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Getting Involved

Acquaintances and casual friends are important, but they don’t make you wake up saying, “I can’t wait to see so-and-so today.”  What keeps us going is close relationships with others. Many of us fear forming close relationships, because they inevitably … Continue reading

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Senior Housing – Exile or ticket home?

Sometimes, what seems like exile to a desert island can actually be a ticket home.  My friend Sylvia’s 82-year-old mother Mabel fought as hard as she could to stay in her suburban house. When poor health finally forced her to … Continue reading

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Not Fearing Death

When I worked at Mt. Zion Hospital in San Francisco, I had an 82 year old cardiac patient named Wilson.  First name Mel, but he preferred just “Wilson.” He was one of those classic crotchety old guys, wrinkled, with a … Continue reading

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